time will also be removed. Considerable time, effort and cost is associated with assembling
particulars to establish to the satisfaction of the court that the marriage or civil partnership has
irretrievably broken down. The ability to contest the granting of a divorce will be also be removed.
While rarely used, it can cause conflict due to its misuse as a controlling tactic or means to leverage
concessions.
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The law cannot fix a broken marriage by compelling one party to remain in a legal
relationship against their will. Of the 2% of divorces that begin as contested proceedings, only a
handful proceed to a full final hearing. The decision to contest a divorce can reflect a profound sense
of injustice at allegations of conduct put forward by the other spouse, because the current legal
process gives no opportunity to rebut these unless the divorce is contested.
25. We believe that these changes will help to minimise conflict and encourage couples to focus on the
key practical decisions needed for the future so that they and their families are able to move on in the
best possible circumstances.
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The option of jointly initiating and progressing proceedings could help
divorcing couples demonstrate to their family and children that the decision is mutual, and could set a
consensual tone for continued co-parenting after separation.
26. Sometimes separation or subsequent divorce can be the best option for a family. When a marriage
has irretrievably broken down and there is ongoing conflict, continuing in it can be damaging for the
couple and for any children that they have. A comprehensive review of research evidence indicates
that children’s outcomes are affected by the quality of the relationship between the parents, not the
structure of the family. Specifically, this review highlights that frequent, intense, poorly resolved, and
child-related interparental conflict adversely affects long-term emotional, behavioural, social,
academic development, and future intergenerational/ interpersonal relationship behaviours for
children and young people.
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There is good evidence that reducing parental conflict during
separation, and supporting co-operative parenting post-separation, contributes to protecting children
against adverse outcomes from separation.
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27. The impact on families going through matrimonial proceedings is therefore considered to be a
positive one. At a difficult time in their lives following relationship breakdown, couples should be
supported to focus on the future, yet the current legal process incentivises them to focus on the
negative events of the past. This is detrimental to prospects of reconciliation and to moving forwards
constructively, and may only increase acrimony and conflict and lead to poorer outcomes for
children.
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Trinder and Sefton (2018) No Contest: Defended Divorce in England and Wales, London: Nuffield Foundation; Corbett, N.E.
and Summerfield, A. (2017) Alleged perpetrators of abuse as litigants in person in private family law: the cross-examination
of vulnerable and intimidated witnesses; HHJ Newton, VW v BH (Contested Divorce Proceedings) [2018] EWFC B68: “Mr H's
whole case has indeed been completely futile, a huge waste of money, a tragic destruction of family relationships, and all, in
my opinion, to satisfy Mr H's own vanity and need to be in control and for the other reasons I have suggested earlier. All he
had to do was to not contest the divorce, a divorce he wanted, as virtually everybody else in the country does”; Lord Wilson
(Supreme Court Justice) Owens (Appellant) v Owens (Respondent) [2018] UKSC 41: “The degree of conflict between the
parties which is evident in a fully defended suit will of itself suggest to the family court that in all likelihood their marriage has
broken down.”
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Lord Wilson (Supreme Court Justice) Owens (Appellant) v Owens (Respondent) [2018] UKSC 41: “damage [is] caused by
the requirement under the current law that, at the very start of proceedings based on the subsection, one spouse must make
allegations of behaviour against the other. Such allegations often inflame their relationship, to the prejudice of any amicable
resolution of the ensuing financial issues and to the disadvantage of any children.”; The Law Society: “the requirement to
assert one of the five fault based facts can have a destructive impact on families and can promote conflict and acrimony.
Evidence suggests that requiring parties to allocate blame can have a detrimental impact on children”
https://www.lawsociety.org.uk/policy-campaigns/consultation-responses/reforming-the-legal-requirements-for-divorce/
;
Resolution (2018) survey of family justice professionals found that 90% say current law makes it harder to reduce conflict
between ex-partners, and 67% say the current law makes it harder for separated parents to reach agreements
http://www.resolution.org.uk/news-list.asp?page_id=228&page=1&n_id=373
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Harold, G., & Sellers, R. (2018). Annual research review: interparental conflict and youth psychopathology: an evidence
review and practice focused update. Journal of Child Psychology and Psychiatry, 59(4), 2018 374-402.
14
See Cassandra Brown (2009) Ameliorating the Effects of Divorce on Children, 22 Journal of the American Academy of
Academic Lawyers 461, 462; Mooney, A., Oliver, C. and Smith, M. (2009) Impact of Family Breakdown on Children’s Well-
Being: Evidence Review, London: Institute of Education; Harold, G., et al. (2016) What works to enhance inter-parental
relationships and improve outcomes for children. Early Intervention Foundation